tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25398921267512217752024-03-13T06:52:03.514-04:00Aspiring Ashley"Now, with God's help, I shall become myself" -Soren Kierkegaard**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.comBlogger328125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-24801025306063768012019-02-04T20:37:00.001-05:002019-02-04T20:37:35.281-05:00I Tried a Mile a Day for One MonthThis year one of my biggest goals is to get my body into a healthy state. So I bought myself a used treadmill for Christmas and decided I should try to run a mile a day.<br />
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It's kinda a crazy idea, since I hadn't exercised much in, like, a year (except for that one month in the fall when I "trained" for and ran a 10K at Disney World). But I figured aiming for a mile a day would be easy enough to do even after a long work day, even if I just walked it. One mile is better than no miles, right?<br />
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So I started. And by day three made an exception that I could skip up to two days in a row, but I had to make up the miles (thanks a lot, insane work day that was unexpectedly 13 hours long and involved the police). Somewhere in the middle of the month I conceded that my goal would be 26 miles instead of 31, because I realized I wasn't thinking about my vacation when I made the goal.<br />
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And then by the time I left for vacation, I had done 22 miles in total.<br />
Did I hit my goal? No. Do I feel awesome about those 22 miles? HECK YES!<br />
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While I do wish I had met my goal, this is the most consistent I've been with exercise in forever and I could feel my body getting stronger every week, which is the ultimate goal. Also? I RAN 22 MILES LAST MONTH. Every run my breathing gets easier and my heart rate is more stable. My mile time isn't great. I basically walk with little spurts of running. My pace is slower than a lot of walkers (my average pace for January was 17:57), but I'm moving my body and taking steps towards a healthier me, and that feels amazing!<br />
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What made me the most excited today (and led to this blog post), was that I went for an outside run for the first time since October because it was somehow 60 degrees in February in Massachusetts. And it was amazing. To set the stage: I spent last week walking and eating a lot of junk around Disney World with my family. I did not exercise, and I did not make good diet choices. My ankles/calves were so tight and sore from all the walking last week. BUT.<br />
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I ran my fastest mile time in, like, two years. My running spurts were longer than the last time I went out and my heart rate and breathing recovered quicker. I thought for sure it would be horrible after a week of unhealthiness, but it was the best run in a very very long time! All those little steps from January actually made a difference!<br />
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So now I'm looking at my February goals list and setting the same one: A Mile a Day. 28 miles by the end of February. I'm excited to see where I am come March first!<br />
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<b>What are your goals for 2019?</b>**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-84052477842397628652018-04-13T23:19:00.000-04:002018-04-16T21:10:02.576-04:00Confession: I Dislike "Reckless Love"<div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="5gsbf" data-offset-key="ema49-0-0" style="color: #1d2129; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">
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The song Reckless Love bothers me. If you haven't heard it yet, let's pause so you can fix that:</div>
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From the first time I heard it, it's struck something in me the wrong way. I mean, I like the overall message of the song. Love it, actually. And the music itself is beautiful. It's a powerful song as a whole! But I <i>hate</i> that it uses the word "reckless".</div>
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According to Google, reckless means "without thought or caring about the consequences of an action". That's not God. God has put a lot of thought and care into his decision to come after us. That's what makes it so amazing! That's the reason this song is so powerful!</div>
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God worked out his redemption plan for us over hundreds of years. From the moment Adam and Eve sinned, God was moving to redeem us. Down through Noah and Abraham, through Moses and the prophets, God was showing his love and setting up his master plan to defeat evil once and for all.</div>
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When Jesus was going to the cross as the fulfillment of that plan, he agonized over that decision. He pleaded with Father God to find a different way of saving us, to take the job off of him. Jesus knew the consequences of saving us: he was going to suffer beyond imagination, but <i><b>he still willingly went to the cross</b></i>. </div>
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The love of God is indeed overwhelming and undeserved and never-ending, but it's not reckless. God's love is perfectly planned, well thought-out, and crazy (which is the word I substitute for reckless when I sing it). </div>
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But "reckless" sounds better in a worship song than "crazy" I guess.<br />
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<b>EDIT:</b> Relentless! Relentless is the word I want to use in place of reckless! It's three days later and my brain finally gave me the word I was looking for. God's love is relentless for us, not reckless.</div>
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**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-52632634780455368482018-03-11T21:05:00.001-04:002018-03-11T21:05:21.771-04:00The Secret Life of MissionsI've been thinking a lot lately about Missions. In particular, Short Term Missions, the damage they cause, and if we can do better.<br />
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Here's the truth that most Christians don't like to think about, let alone acknowledge: <b>Short Term Missions often do more harm than good</b>. Think about it: how does spending tens of thousands of dollars to take teenagers to a "poor" country to do skits or construction help people? We can't even speak the language! Wouldn't it be more effective to send the money with a few skilled adults who could support the local leaders in a project they actually need and want? By paying local workers and suppliers a fair wage to build something that is truly needed and structurally sound?<br />
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<b>It's time to get honest with ourselves: why do we take missions trips? </b><br />
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Do we take short term missions trips for ourselves, or the people we're there to "serve"? Are we causing harm to the population we're going to? How do we tell their stories? Are they projects to fix and poster children for our blog, or intelligent and dignified people living their lives? How do we speak about their country to folks back home? And the kicker: is that country/city truly any different or improved after our visit?<br />
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These are tough questions, and I have more, and I don't really have answers yet. But I know that something about STMs needs to change. Don't get me wrong, I love missions (whatever that means)! I have been on several STM trips, and even have one scheduled for this summer. I'm not ready to throw out the whole thing. But that is precisely <i>why</i> I want to fix this thing we call missions.<br />
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Somewhere over the years we've twisted what the Great Commission is all about and made voluntourism a multimillion dollar industry. Can a short term missions trip accomplish good for all involved? Or are we just kidding ourselves and making everyone think we're super holy?<br />
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I'll be exploring all these themes over the next several weeks, and I hope you'll join me.<br />
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<b>What are your experiences with missions: the good, the bad, or the ugly? Have you thought about the dark side of STM work? Is there a way to salvage STMs? </b>Tell me your thoughts and let's explore this topic together!<br />
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Some resources that have started me on this thought journey:<br />
- <a href="https://www.amazon.com/When-Helping-Hurts-Alleviate-Yourself/dp/0802409989/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1520816370&sr=8-1&keywords=when+helping+hurts">When Helping Hurts</a> (book)<br />
- <a href="https://theveryworstmissionary.com/">The Very Worst Missionary</a> (blog)<br />
- <a href="https://www.failedmissionary.com/">The Failed Missionary</a> (new podcast)<br />
<br />**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-35018437837704856862018-01-25T21:00:00.003-05:002018-01-25T21:01:36.013-05:00I'm Going to India!!In case you missed the title up there...I'm going to India!<br />
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An internet friend posted recently that she had open spots for "folks who don't live in the Grand Rapids area" on an upcoming missions trip with WCSG Radio, so I applied. Because #missions and #India. Also because I've watched Ronne post about so many other trips over the past few years that didn't work out for me to join. <br />
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This time around, though, there was no reason to say no. When I asked for the time off, my boss actually said he's going to see about putting me in the employee newsletter and having the facility sponsor me! So once work was clear, that was it. See, God and I have a deal: I'll take action on any missions trip that comes my way unless I get a no from Him. No no's means it's a yes! And it's no coincidence that her post was just a few days after I put this random internet image on my vision board for the year:<br />
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<b>So now, the details.</b><br />
Right smack-dab in the middle of July I will be heading to the Kullu Valley of Northern India (right in the Himalayas!) with Orphan Outreach and WCSG Radio. Together we'll get to meet and love and play and learn with the children at DUF (House of Grace) Children's Home while they're on summer break.<br />
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A staggering statistic I just learned? 35,000,000 children in India are orphaned. THIRTY-FIVE MILLION. That's 9% of India's children! And that does not represent the insane number of homeless kids living on the streets! This trip is a chance to make a difference for a few of them, and I am so excited to meet them.<br />
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<br /><b>I'd love for you to join me.</b><br />
I would love for you to partner with me in prayer and funding. As with all of my missions trips, I am committed to paying for at least half of the trip from my own pocket, and raising support for the other half. If you would like to donate towards this love adventure, you can do so <a href="https://www.orphanoutreach.co/donations/page/support.asp?">here</a> by putting my name (Ashley Webster) in the participant line. For those curious, the trip code is IN18-07WCSG, but it's not required to make a donation.<br />
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<b>Current prayer requests:</b><br />
That God would prepare the team for the work of this trip, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually. That he would instill us with wisdom and boldness, humbleness and grace. And, selfishly, that the temperature would be a little below average while we're there. 95 degrees is not this lady's ideal climate.<br />
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I am so so excited for this adventure! It will be my first missions trip where I don't know anyone on the team, and my first time to India! <b>Have you been to India? What should I know?</b><br />
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**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-46744102096951122392016-08-15T21:40:00.000-04:002016-08-15T21:40:11.229-04:00Geektacular Adventuring <div style="text-align: center;">
Whoops. This blog has fallen by the wayside a bit as I've gotten deeper into Youtube. Sorry. Hoping to fix that in the next few months.</div>
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As you may know, I've been using this year to read through ALL of Roald Dahl's books. I've been posting updates over on my Youtube channel. For July's wrap up, I also made a special announcement...I will be going to the UK in September to join in the events happening for Roald Dahl's 100th birthday! And adding in other geeky things! If you missed the announcement, click <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8W3geNBkvR4">here</a>. </div>
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I will be there for nearly two weeks, hopping around to a few cities and events, and I thought I would share what I'll be going to, in case you're curious (hi Mom and Gran!) or are in the area and want to join in. </div>
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Okay, so this isn't necessarily geeky. But I've been to England twice, with Stonehenge up on my list of things I want to see, and I still haven't done it! So I'm making it a priority. I'm going the day I get in, so I'll be EXHAUSTED and sleeping on the bus, but whatever. I am going to see Stonehenge this time.</div>
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This is about an hour outside of London and is the official "home" of all things Dahl. It seems to be mostly geared towards children, but I still think it will be fun. And worst case, I can explore a new town.</div>
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Besides hotels and flights, this is the most expensive part of the trip, but I could not pass it up! It's an adults only dinner theatre put on by the disgustingly gruesome Dahl characters Mr and Mrs Twit. It sounds absolutely amazing and I'm so excited to have the opportunity to see this.</div>
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I almost didn't get in on this. When I found out there was a true English Afternoon Tea service, at The Shard, with a Dahl theme, it was at the top of my list! But when I went to book, the website wouldn't let me book a party of one. So I sent an email playing the YouTube card (not that I think that mattered), heard back within 15 minutes, and one international phone call later, I've got a reservation. This looks amazingly delicious and whimsical, and I absolutely can't wait.</div>
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I did mention "other" geeky stuff. I figured if I'm going to England for one geeky reason, why not just capitalize on the geekiness and do it all? So I am fitting in Harry Potter. I have not heard a single bad thing about this tour, so I'm excited to get my Hogwarts Pride on. I <i>really</i> wanted to get in to the Cursed Child play, but tickets are NOT going to happen :( </div>
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How fun does that sound?! I also managed to score second row seats for about $30 because it has "limited leg room". But all the reviews of the seat online said if you're under 5'5'' you'd be fine, so...yay me! </div>
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This is the biggest thing happening in Cardiff for Dahl's birthday. The weekend of the 17th will have all kinds of activities and <a href="https://www.wmc.org.uk/Productions/2016-2017/Other/COTUReadings/?lang=en">readings</a> all around town- including a Pyjama Party! There are a few things listed on the website, and others will be announced as we get closer. Plus, I think a lot of it will just be up in the air (to visitors like me). </div>
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There's a special exhibit on Quentin Blake at this museum, so a trip is in order!</div>
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The Wondercrump World of Roald Dahl is taking place here. I don't know what it means, but there's a photo of James' Giant Peach with kids playing in it, so I'm totally game.</div>
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I've heard this is wonderful, so I'm going to work it in somewhere. I have two full days currently with "nothing planned" so we'll see how it works out. I've also read that with a ticket to my next adventure, you can get a discount to the castle.</div>
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There was no way in the multiverse I was going to Cardiff and not going to the Doctor Who Experience. I even reworked my itinerary to include a day when they do walking tours to filming locations. I may have also splurged for the merchandise pack, which includes a t-shirt, tote, other goodies, plus- the part I'm most excited about- A COMPANION TARDIS KEY. I get to be a companion! I also read on their website that sometimes the BBC allows ticket holders for DWE to go tour the ACTUAL, CURRENT TARDIS set. So, prayers that it happens the day I go :)<br />
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This is an unofficial landmark that is a must for the Torchwood fandom. And warning-this entry contains spoilers. When character Ianto Jones was killed on the show fans left flowers, notes and the like on the pier. Now 7 years later, the tribute remains as a wonderfully weird memorial to our coffee boy.<br />
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From what I gather, Tatton Park is a fancy old property with a grand house and garden and...a farm? Around the property are all kinds of Dahl-related exhibits. For example, the Enormous Crocodile is lurking on the grounds and Danny is hunting pheasants with the guests. It sounds totally magical. </div>
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Also taking place at Tatton Park is a special daylong workshop for adult writers to learn to create characters and stories like Dahl. There are two different dates for this, and I believe I did see a children's course at one point, too.</div>
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It's going to be deliciously geeky in all kinds of ways.</div>
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**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-4767336800924578562016-01-08T21:23:00.002-05:002016-01-08T21:23:46.579-05:00Why I Love Compassion InternationalIt's been a while since I've blogged for Compassion. It's also been a while since I volunteered for one of their events (both things I am going to have to change this year). But I had an experience this week that I want to share with you.<br />
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There are a lot of child-sponsorship organizations out there, but I've gone through Compassion International for over ten years now for a reason: <b>they care about people</b>. They care about the children and families they minister to, certainly, but they also care about their sponsors and partners.<br />
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I could tell you about how more than 80% goes directly to the sponsored communities or how they consistently receive the highest ratings from independent charity investigators, but I'm not going to. I have three personal incidences that I want to share with you that emphasize what I passionately support Compassion.<br />
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<b>1. Forgiveness</b><br />
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Several years ago, I was between jobs and, due to an error (on my part) saving my debit card on the website, I fell many months behind. Like, hundreds of dollars behind. Thanks to automatic withdrawals, I didn't pay attention to the envelopes coming in. I had no clue until they called asking about it. Making only $50 a week, there was no way I'd be able to pay that back. I was near tears and in shock, and didn't want to have to give up my sponsored child (although I knew they would cover that child's sponsorship until a new sponsor could be found). But then the operator said something amazing. Compassion was going to wipe my debt and give me a fresh start. That started the tears, for sure. The man on the phone was so kind, even though I'm sure he was following a script. I fully believed in that moment that he and Compassion knew life happens and truly forgave the debt. If any organization practices what they preach, it's Compassion.<br />
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A few months back I received a letter from Compassion that the community center my child was a part of was being less than honest. They didn't tell the details, just that their standards for distribution and honor were not being followed. They were working with the community leaders and had given them 60 days to show improvement or Compassion would have to pull their support from the area. I received three more letters on the subject, keeping me informed along the way. Fortunately, everything was resolved and support continues in this area of the world.<br />
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One of the things I love about Compassion is that they work with local centers that are already making a difference in their communities. They don't come in as the "American Savior", but partner with the local church to empower communities. This incident helped confirm for me that Compassion is serious about how the money they collect is used. More importantly, they give chances. They extend forgiveness. While mistakes were made by leaders in the community, Compassion didn't immediately abandon ship. They worked with the local leaders to resolve the issues for the sake of those in need, and kept the sponsors informed of everything happening.<br />
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My birthday was this week. I got a call a few days ago that I ignored because I didn't recognize the number. When I finally listened to the message, I found it was someone from the Compassion Advocate Program wishing me a Happy Birthday! I joined the Advocate Program about a year ago, and regrettably haven't done as much as I would've liked for them over the past year. But Compassion cares about people, so I got a personal phone call for my birthday. Does your child sponsorship program do that?<br />
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I adore everything that Compassion does for children and families struggling in the world. I passionately support their ministry and will continue to sponsor children through them for as long as I am able. If you would like to support a child through Compassion, <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=******">click here</a>.<br />
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<b>Runner Up, Series: Percy Jackson and the Olympians by Rick Riordan</b><br />
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Look at these gorgeous new covers! They form one giant picture and it's beautiful. This series follows a boy named Percy starting on his 11th birthday when he finds out he's a demigod- his dad is the Greek god Poseidon. Throughout the series (and it's follow up series Heroes of Olympus) we see Percy and his demigod friends battle monsters, strengthen friendships, and save the world. I'm working my way through all of Rick Riordan's books and none have been disappointing.<br />
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Stephenie pulled off the greatest surprise ever for the 10th anniversary of Twilight (besides publishing Midnight Sun. THAT would've been the greatest): she published a new book in the Twilight world. It's not a completely brand new story, it's Twilight reimagined with all the genders swapped. Because Bella is now Beau, some little things change, and then the whole story changes a little bit. And I loved every second. In addition to my review linked above, I have a reaction video <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndgyJKnOxFU">here</a>.<br />
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<b>14. Six Months Later by Natalie D. Richards</b><br />
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This book was a total surprise! The cover drew me in at Barnes and Noble, the blurb on the back sounded interesting, and then I stayed up all night to finish it. When Chloe wakes up in study hall, six months have passed and she can't remember anything, but everything in her life has done a 180 degree twist. No one will answer her questions and she's determined to get to the bottom of it all. Really intriguing book! She has another book out and I'm going to have to get it this year, because SMO kept me on the edge of my seat the whole time!<br />
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<b>13. We Were Liars by e. lockhart</b><br />
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This book. I can't tell you a lot about it. In fact, e. lockhart told me to lie about this book if asked about it, so let's just not say much. A wealthy family summers on their private island, and some dark secrets come out. This book is incredibly easy to fly through, and makes you wonder what the heck is happening most of the time. I initially disliked this book, but here we are <i>months</i> later and I keep thinking about it. So it's moved up my rating a bit. Just read it, and then we can chat.<br />
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<b>12. The Heir by Kiera Cass</b><br />
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I <i>loved</i> The Selection series so much, so when I heard about this one I was so excited! And I was not disappointed! I liked Eadlyn more than I liked America and really enjoyed seeing her go through her own selection. Getting to see the whole process from the royal perspective was a nice twist. She has some wonderful contenders, and I can't wait for the final installment of this series to see who she chooses! <br />
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<b>11. Shatter Me by Tahereh Mafi </b><br />
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This book. This book has the most unique, gorgeous writing style I've ever read. It's sort of train of thought with certain things <strike>crossed out</strike> and other things written in. Juliette has a...talent, shall we call it? Her touch is lethal. Because of this, she's been locked away for most of her life, until the beginning of our story, when she is rescued and suddenly treated more like a superhero than a monster, though people still don't trust her. This story is just so great and I'm looking forward to finishing the series this year.<br />
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<b>10. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZEjY5O_UVA&index=6&list=PLTQJG0B9YTWmOmeCktRPls2wEqhMpZMyd">The Best Yes</a> by Lysa Terkeurst</b><br />
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I think every woman, really person, in ministry should read this. It is geared towards women, but I think men could get something out of it too. It's about making wise decisions that lead you to your best life, not the busy life. About knowing when to say yes and when to say no. In fact, there are three chapters dedicated to "no" in this book about The Best Yes! Terkeurst also helps you chase down decisions, to step back and see what that small yes may lead to and if it's where you really want to go. Great book!<br />
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<b>9. You're Never Weird on the Internet...Almost by Felicia Day</b><br />
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YES. I love Felicia Day (hence the photo of us in this post about her book), and this memoir was fantastic. I loved learning more about her life, her passion for the things she loves, and her drive to make things happen. This book made me laugh, and while I would have liked to see at least <i>one</i> story about the boys of Supernatural, this still got five stars from me.<br />
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<b>8. Ready Player One by Ernest Cline</b><br />
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Set only 40 years in our future, humanity is crumbling and seeks relief in an online world called The Oasis. Not only is it an escape from the depression of daily life, but with a chance to win the inheritance of The Oasis' creator, it holds the promise of lifelong happiness and comfort. This book is so well done. Yes, it's very detailed, but Cline has literally created dozens of new technologies and worlds in this book. The characters are wonderful and the story line will keep you hooked. This is set to become a movie next year by the great Steven Spielberg and I can't wait to see this translated to the big screen.</div>
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<b>7. Furiously Happy by Jenny Lawson</b><br />
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No one can write about mental health issues as hilariously as Jenny Lawson. Her first book cracked me up and made me literally laugh out loud, and this one was no different. This book focuses more on her depression, anxiety, etc. than the first, but all with the signature Bloggess touch. I'm pretty sure the people around me on the plane thought I was crazy, because I was crying-snort-laughing in my seat. Just read this. </div>
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But you guys, this is a real book. A hefty 400+ page book. And it's sorta kinda awesome. It's literally about Amish Vampires in Space. And there's a sequel!! I need to get my hands on it...it's Amish Zombies From Space. But in all seriousness, I really enjoyed this book, despite the insane premise. While the subject is obviously interesting, the characters lived up to it, for the most part. I just really enjoyed this book.<br />
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This book is simply lovely. Maddie is allergic to everything and is content in her quiet bubbled life with just her mom and her virtual tutor. That is, until a cute mysterious boy moves in next door. Suddenly Maddie is doing things she never imagined and the results are at turns disastrous and heartwarming. My only complaint about this book is that it's not a tad bit longer. I just needed a <i>little</i> bit more to this story; it wrapped up too quickly! </div>
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My friend lent me this book for a plane ride and I lapped it up in just over one flight. With several pages of notes in my journal (since it wasn't my book I couldn't write in it). This is a self-help type book with very simple steps to take to help you live your best life. I absolutely loved this book. I had also read You Are a Badass this year (different author) but 52 Ways was much better, in my opinion. I related to Andrea and just liked her style more.<br />
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Oh man. This book. I picked it up looking for a light, sweet read. I was very wrong to assume this would be that book. However, it was amazing and I'm so glad I read it. This novel deals with themes of suicide and hints at bipolar disorder, and Jennifer weaves such a beautiful story through these themes. I laughed, I cried, I hugged the book when I was done.<br />
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<b>2. A Darker Shade of Magic by V.E. Schwab</b><br />
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A friend sent me this book (thanks Jess!) when it came into her possession but she wasn't interested in it. It sat on my shelf for a little while before I finally picked it up and oh.my.chuck. I LOVED this book so much more than I expected to. And it's just grown on me as time has gone by. Kel has the ability to travel between the three different universes that contain a version of London, a gift he shares with only one other person. One day things begin to go terribly wrong and a spunky girl named Lila gets mixed up with the drama.<br />
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This book was unique for me in that when it ended, I was satisfied with the ending while still having some lingering questions. Lucky for me, when I looked it up on GoodReads, I found out it's part of a series! YAY! The next book comes out this year and I can't wait!<br />
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<b>1. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnQ-FhrKnLo&list=PLTQJG0B9YTWmOmeCktRPls2wEqhMpZMyd&index=4">Illuminae</a> by Amie Kauffman and Jay Kristoff</b><br />
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Here we are, my absolute favorite book of the year is 1000% Illuminae. I read it twice in 2015 because I loved it so much. I had picked it up at BookCon and started reading it a few months later without knowing anything about it. That is absolutely the way to go. What sets this book apart and makes the story so much better is the way it's told. Illuminae uses a collection of documents to tell the story of the Kerenza Incident, such as security transcripts, emails, interviews, medical records, and artificial intelligence reports. This book has so much happening in it, you just need to read it to understand my love and excitement (and this massive <i>gorgeous</i> book is only $10 on Amazon, so you have no excuses). I show some of the pictures and gorgeousness inside during my video review, so click the title up there to see it.</div>
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<b><span style="font-size: x-large;">I am declaring 2016 the Year of Dahl. </span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-size: x-large;">I am going to read (practically) all of Dahl's work in one year. </span></b><br />
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I say practically because there are a few snags to reading everything. First of all, one of his novels (his first adult novel) is out of print everywhere except the Netherlands. You can find it on eBay if you're willing to shell out several hundred dollars, though. Then Dahl also wrote a bunch of short stories- and I do mean a BUNCH. Without buying every short story collection and having a lot of overlap, I don't know that I'll get to read all of them.<br />
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From what I understand after scouring several websites, there are a total of 27 books (including novels, children's literature, and nonfiction works) and 48 short stories written by Dahl. I plan to read most- if not all- of them in 2016.<br />
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To help me in this, I've compiled some resources that I'd like to share with you.<br />
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First, the ultimate list of books and short stories. I've created a few spreadsheets all on <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1HzeHUb7p--E8c6dSYTpQTDNUaAFEToQSC0IyLYagptM/edit?usp=sharing">Google Drive here</a>. The first sheet is a list of the books and any special notes. The second sheet is a list of the short stories and where to find them. The third and final sheet shows 7 short story collections side-by-side listing the stories in each collection.<br />
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Next up, I've made some printables! Here's an adorable little checklist of <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0BzLxG1KKRm8EUTlRMVZEWW51ekE/view?usp=sharing">all the Roald Dahl books</a>.<br />
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<b>Do you have a favorite Roald Dahl story? Let me know down below and I'll move it towards the top of my TBR.</b><br />
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<span style="color: #999999;">Disclaimer: I do not claim the images used in the checklists. They are Quentin Blake's works from the original Roald Dahl stories. Also, some of the books and stories on these lists contain adult content. Not all of his works are child-friendly. </span>**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-34163816722697508432015-12-16T20:19:00.000-05:002015-12-16T20:19:18.855-05:00I Have Pink Hair Now. Pink Hair Is Cool.Last week I did something a little bit crazy. I dyed my hair pink. Not all of it, just some peek-a-boo highlights in bright pink. AND I LOVE IT! Seriously, LOVE.<br />
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Those around me have said things like "It's so out of character for you!" and "What possessed you to do that?!" Most have loved it, too, but it got me thinking. Why <i>did</i> I dye my hair pink? It wasn't to impress someone or make me stand out. It wasn't to be cool, or to rebel against anything. Most simply, I couldn't find an excuse <i>not</i> to.<br />
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I have always wanted to dye my hair pink but always had an excuse: Parents won't let me. School won't let me. Work won't let me. I can't keep it up. I don't have the money. I don't wanna do it myself and mess up my head. Last week, I ran out of excuses.<br />
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I'll be 29 in just a few short weeks. One year left in my twenties (but lets not talk about that). Isn't this the decade when you're supposed to do crazy things? By comparison to others my age, pink hair is barely a blip on the crazy scale.<br />
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But honestly? The real reason I did it? Every time I look in the mirror and see these pink strands, I smile. Having pink hair makes me happy.<br />
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<b>Life is too short to be miserable. Or even just apathetic. </b><br />
<b>Life should be <i>enjoyed</i>. Savored. Abundant and overflowing. </b><br />
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That was something I was trying to cultivate in 2015, something I'm still working on. Saying yes to more things that are enjoyable and no to things that aren't. Getting out of my comfortable but boring bubble and into things that are fun and interesting and difficult (even if they sometimes take place on my couch; Hello, BookTube!).<br />
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A life well lived. This is what I want my life to be, and my pink hair is a small tribute to that.<br />
So here's to the coming year. A year of bold choices, enjoyable experiences, a life overflowing.<br />
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<i>What have you done lately just because it made you happy?</i><br />
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So, I'm not sure where this post is going right now. I have some photos to share with you from my trip to Chicago last month, but that would require standing up to get my external hard drive where they're currently stored. Same with my attendance at the Night Vale book signing. Oooh so let's talk Twilight!<br />
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It's been a while since Twilight has been mentioned on this blog, since all the books and movies have been out for years. That is, until earlier this month. Because Stephenie Meyer somehow hid from the entire world that she had written a new Twilight book.<br />
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I'm still not over this. How did no one spill??<br />
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On the morning of October 6th 2015 (aka the greatest day for book releases and book news in the history of ever), the tenth anniversary special edition of Twilight was released, and with it a new story. Well, the exact same story but with reversed genders. The book world went nuts. I was in bed when I saw it online and, after checking multiple sources to make sure it wasn't a joke and the B&N website to make sure they had it in stock, I immediately restructured my day to go buy it. I may have blown off a few minor responsibilities that morning. But the day ended with I my hands on the new Twilight book and this video, that I think gives you a small glimpse at how excited I was:<br />
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To say I was excited was an understatement. I didn't realize my love for Twilight still ran so deep until it was announced that there was a new book. I had to have it right then, and once it was finally mine, I did little else but read that book until it was finished. And I loved it. It's like a fan fiction, but better than fan fiction because the original author wrote it and approves of this imagining! I did a full review in this video:<br />
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But suffice it to say, that while this is not Midnight Sun (maybe for the 11th anniversary edition? Whaddya say, Stephenie?), it was still a very pleasant surprise. Is it a completely new book? Definitely not. But is it a fun twist on an old favorite? Absolutely. Go in expecting that and I think you'll enjoy it too.<br />
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Also, I just have to say, in my opinion....Beau > Bella. <i>Sorry not sorry</i>.**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-92146808220508414842015-09-09T09:35:00.002-04:002015-09-09T09:35:23.403-04:00Fanboy Meets FangirlYou could have been my unicorn.<br />
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I was on a one day vacation with my friends. You were working a busy candy counter. I stepped up to the register to pay for my snacks and you walked over while the girl was ringing me up.<br />
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"Hey, do you know if this soda is a twist off cap or a pop top?"<br />
"No, I don't pay attention to those things. I'm much more interested in the flight pattern of bees."<br />
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And just like that, you had my attention.<br />
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"You know, I've been told I bear a striking resemblance to Castiel."<br />
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"Yeah, you kind do!" I smile while the cashier tells my total. My casual-fandom friend now understands and my non-fandom friend is still confused, but at least knows the subject. But me?<br />
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As I sign the receipt and you shirk responsibility we chat about how wearing a fandom shirt (I was wearing my AKF shirt) in public is an invitation for conversation from other fans. "It's like wearing a Dungeons and Dragons shirt in public," you say, "people just know." You motion towards your chest as you say this. "But I'm not wearing anything fun today, just my apron."<br />
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All too soon, I'm shuffling out of the crowded store.<br />
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You could have been my unicorn. That was a great pickup line for someone like me. But alas, it wasn't meant to be. I was with friends, and you were working a busy Sunday afternoon at the candy counter.<br />
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Now I'm left wondering...why isn't there a dating site for fandoms?<br />
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**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-58285926940191246042015-09-01T01:06:00.000-04:002015-09-01T01:06:00.377-04:00Best Work Call EVER.<b>Tonight I answered the phone at work and was unprepared for the conversation that would follow. </b><br />
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Me: Hello, this is Ashley, can I help you?<br />
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Sir: Yeah, hi, I'm hoping I don't come off sounding crazy.<br />
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Me: Okay?<br />
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Sir: I live at [<i>apartments a few doors down</i>]. Were you working last Wednesday?<br />
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Me: No, but I might be able to answer your question anyways [<i>thinking he's going to ask about the concert series</i>].<br />
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Sir: So you saw it too?!<br />
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Me: Saw what?<br />
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Sir: Oh, I thought you said you knew what I was talking about. I don't want to sound crazy. I'm as sober as a judge, ya know, but I saw something in the sky Wednesday night and it looked like it was coming from near you guys.<br />
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Me: Oh. No, I don't know anything about it.<br />
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Sir: Yeah, it was so strange so I grabbed my neighbors and we were all trying to figure out what it was. It wasn't a helicopter or something. It was strange.<br />
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Me: [<i>intrigued from watching too much Ancient Aliens lately</i>] Oh?<br />
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Sir: I'm not drunk or anything, I'm sober as a judge. And I know what helicopters look like. This thing had three white lights, and two red ones. And it would move to the side, then stop suddenly and just...hover. Then it would shoot straight up or to the side, real quick, and then go back to hovering. Maybe it was a drone, but I don't think they're as big as this thing was. It was out there for about 15 minutes just hovering with the lights. I know I probably sound crazy.<br />
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Me: No, that's okay.<br />
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Sir: I...I hate to say it, but...it looked like...It looked like a UFO, you know? I've never seen anything like it in my life! A few of my neighbors were out there with me and they haven't either. One girl tried to take a picture with her phone but couldn't get it. It was just so strange.<br />
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Me: Wow.<br />
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Sir: I've been debating calling to ask someone about it because I didn't want to sound crazy, but I just had to ask. I thought maybe you do airlifts or something that that's what I saw.<br />
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Me: No, we don't do that here. They do at the hospital [down the road a little bit] though.<br />
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Sir: Yeah, but I don't really think it was a helicopter anyways. It looked totally different. Ah, well, thanks for trying to help.<br />
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Me: No problem! Wish I knew something about it.<br />
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<b>Of course, I turned to Google when I got home, and he's not the only one to have noticed it. It's recorded on the National UFO Reporting Center's registry with the same details he gave me (except he gave a little extra- like the number of lights). </b>**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-37605720078642164362015-08-26T22:22:00.000-04:002015-08-26T22:22:23.941-04:00"Own Your Life"<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I wanted to like this book. I really did. That title? AWESOME. But the content? Not so much.<br />
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Well, I take that back. The content was okay, but it didn't match the title. Ignoring the abundance of imagery and flowery language (not my style, but it works for some people), the book title and chapter titles didn't fit with what was discussed. I feel a better title would be "Own Your Faith". The author's answer to pretty much every problem mentioned in the book was "pray, read your Bible, and have more faith", nothing tactile, no practical steps to even improve those areas. I was also put off by the number of times the author mentioned all the books and conferences her ministry had produced, bringing up the same stories over and over.<br />
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I know a lot of women are loving this book, but it missed the mark for me. It wasn't what I expected, and not in the good way. It also frustrated me that like many other Christian books for women, it's assumed that all women are mothers and wives. I skipped the last two chapters because they were solely about marriage and motherhood. Truthfully, the only reason I finished this one was because I had requested it to review. There were just odd little moments in this book that didn't do it for me.<br />
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The reason it gets two stars from me is because it is a decent book...for someone else. For a different purpose. There were a few statements early in the book that I enjoyed and underlined, but then it fell flat.<br />
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<i>I received this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.</i>**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-7682640810723693682015-08-21T21:57:00.000-04:002015-08-21T21:57:31.906-04:00Dublin's Best Kept Secret Museum<div style="text-align: center;">
This last trip to Dublin I discovered the <i>best</i> little museum! I hadn't seen it advertised anywhere, not even on the grounds. How did I find it? Checking the hours of the main museum on the grounds.</div>
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Okay, that is a little vague, I'm just going to tell you what this amazing little place is: the <a href="https://www.tcd.ie/Zoology/museum/">Zoology Museum</a> at Trinity College! I have never seen it mentioned in a guidebook, visitor center, or even <i>at the college</i>. When I went online to see when the Book of Kells and Library opened on the bank holiday, they listed the hours for the Zoology museum, so we decided to check it out. We stopped at one of the information booths outside the library to ask where it was, and they were so happy and surprised that we asked! Apparently <i>no one</i> <i>knows</i> about this museum, and that is a real shame, because it was one of my favorite things of the trip.</div>
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Located WAY at the back of the campus, the building is beautiful, like most on the grounds. The only acknowledgment that the museum exists is the small chalkboard sign out front.</div>
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Follow the signs to the second floor and you find the museum. It's two fairly small rooms, but they're packed with really cool things. The student guide was so nice and helpful! Instead of just answering questions, he helped us figure out the answers and was a fount of knowledge on all things animal. </div>
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The first thing I noticed was a giant horn on the table. I immediately knew what it was: A narwhal horn! One of the coolest things about this place: anything on the table you can touch and pick up. INCLUDING THE NARWHAL HORN! </div>
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I had to ask what this next one was and was surprised because I didn't think it'd be so small! Can you guess based on my clue?</div>
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While we're talking about bones, <i>you can play with lots of bones here!</i> Like, look at this bucket of vertebrae!</div>
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These were some of the mystery objects to identify. The top right you could pick up and handle to help figure out what it is (and no, I'm not telling you).</div>
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<br />**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-30158479414430850232015-08-19T08:27:00.002-04:002015-08-19T09:03:28.341-04:00Announcing the Build Your Own Read-a-Thon!I'm so excited for this announcement! This morning I was thinking about read-a-thons and how so far this summer, I had only been able to half participate in one thon because none of them fit my schedule. So I had decided to make my own when it all came to me in the shower. Thus, the Build Your Own Read-a-Thon was born. And I want you to join me! Here's how it works.<br />
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1)<b> Choose your dates. </b>Choose any 5 consecutive days between August 2015 and August 2016 for your BYORAT that works for your schedule. This inaugural year I'm choosing Aug 25-28. Of course, with the nature of this -thon, you could do it multiple times during the year and have different challenges each time.<br />
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2) <b>Choose your reading challenges.</b> These are certainly not mandatory, but they make BYORAT more interesting. Choose up to 5, based on your reading habits. You can choose your favorites or, as I'm going to do, put them all in a hat and randomly choose 5.<br />
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<li>Read an entire book without putting it down</li>
<li>Read a book that's been on your TBR for, like, forever</li>
<li>Read a banned book (here's a <a href="http://www.ala.org/bbooks/frequentlychallengedbooks/classics">list</a> or <a href="http://www.ala.org/bbooks/frequentlychallengedbooks/top10">two</a> from the ALA)</li>
<li>Read a book who's cover is your least favorite color</li>
<li>Read a book with 400+ pages</li>
<li>Read a book with your name on the cover (either actually there, like the author name, or made up from letters in the title and author's name)</li>
<li>Read 5 books during the -thon</li>
<li>Read a full trilogy or series</li>
<li>Read a book you most recently acquired</li>
<li>Read a book that <i>everyone</i> has read and talks about, but you haven't just read yet</li>
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<b>3) Choose your video challenges.</b> Again, not mandatory, but fun. If you don't have a YouTube channel you can do the challenges as photos on your blog, Instagram, Tumblr, Twitter, Facebook, whatever. Same as above, choose five, one for each day.<br />
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<li>Socialize (aka make a video with another person: family, friend, whoever)</li>
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<li>Bookish MASH</li>
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<li>Remember that game MASH you played in junior high where you and JTT ended up with 8 kids living in a shack paid for by your job as a secret agent? Well throw some bookish facts in there to make your fictional life even better! </li>
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<li>Sequel Synopsis</li>
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<li>Share what you think should happen in the sequel of a book that doesn't actually have a sequel.</li>
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<li>Book Art</li>
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<li>Take those books off your shelf and make them into something pretty! Stack them to make a castle, lay them out in the shape of a puppy, build a book flower...Use your imagination to add a twist to the classic book tower.</li>
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<li>Cover Redesign</li>
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<li>That book with the cover that you HATE? Here's your chance to fix it.</li>
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<li>Fictional Character Interview</li>
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<li>Get creative and ask a character what you've always wanted to know. Why was Snape so horrible to Harry? Why can't America make up her mind in the Selection? Ask those tough questions and let us all know the answers.</li>
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<li>Foreign Review</li>
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<li>Give us a review of a book you read this week with an accent. I don't care if you can't do a recognizable accent to save your life (that's me, by the way), make something up. That will make it even better.</li>
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<li>Travel Advisor</li>
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<li>Give us a commercial for your favorite fictional destination letting travelers know why they should come there. Should I go to Mordor? How do I get there? What's the weather like in Forks this time of year?</li>
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<li>Love an Author</li>
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<li>Take it Outside!</li>
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<b>4) Get started!</b> Now that you've got your dates and challenges, get to it! Let me know when and where you're participating so I can follow along. Use the hashtag #BYORAT across all social media to find others building their own read-a-thons. I'm adding all this info to a tab at the top of my blog for easy reference. We've also got a GoodReads group started <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/group/show/170381-build-your-own-read-a-thon">here</a>!</div>
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I'm so excited about this and hope you'll join me in building your own read-a-thon. I think it's going to be a lot of fun!</div>
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**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-19068351539722161882015-07-21T13:22:00.000-04:002015-07-21T13:22:00.207-04:00"A Noble Masquerade"<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I really enjoyed this book! Such a fun and delightfully awkward debut Regency romance!<br />
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Miranda is born and raised aristocracy. Her father was a duke, a title her brother now holds, which brings certain responsibilities for Miranda's behavior. She has always chaffed at the Lady Rules laid out for her and has spilled her thoughts and emotions into letters to one of her brothers adventurous schoolmates. She never sends them, of course, but getting everything onto paper makes her feel better. One day during her fourth season in society, her brothers handsome new valet accidentally finds and mails one of the letters. Miranda's mortification is lessened slightly when she actually receives a letter in response! She sons finds herself developing feelings for both men, despite the obvious inappropriateness of both relationships. To complicate matters, a kidnapping and national traitor are linked to her home, putting more than her heart on the line.<br />
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I loved this book. Such an enjoyable summer read! Miranda and her awkwardness are so relatable my stomach was in knots for most of the book. I felt her embarrassment through so many moments. Like when one of the men she finds attractive accidentally punches her in the face. Or when she flings a plate of food around the entire dining room.<br />
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Ryland is just the SWEETEST. While also being the most frustrating. All the secrets and misdirections the first few times they met had me so anxious! But the way he cared so much for Miranda just as she was, even in her least ladylike moments, was just so sweet. It wasn't so much that he looked past her flaws and still loved her, as he saw her flaws and loved her <i>because</i> of them.<br />
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I can't wait to read more of this series! I had so much fun with this one.<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Masquerade-Hawthorne-House/dp/0764214322/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&sr=1-1&qid=1437499164">A Noble Masquerade</a> is available in September through Bethany House.<br />
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Recommended.<br />
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First: It was amazing. Second: No, seriously, this book is <b><i>SO. GOOD</i></b>. Bold capitalized italics good. I read the entire book (600 pages) in a day. The more I think about it, the more I love it. The easiest 5-star book of the year for me.</div>
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<u style="font-weight: bold;">PLOT:</u> In the briefest, least spoilery terms, Illuminae is the first book in a new YA sci-fi trilogy that follows a group of intergalactic refugees fleeing their planet after it has been attacked by the largest mining conglomerate in the 'verse. While on board their rescue ships, they face constant threat from enemy ships, a lethal plague from bioweapons, malfunctioning AI, and forced military service. Oh, and there's some sappy awkward romance. </div>
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<u style="font-weight: bold;">DESIGN:</u> I knew <i>nothing</i> going into this book. I had snagged copy at BookCon, and the amazing cover and design of the whole book (even as an ARC) made me want to read it, even knowing nothing. You can see a glimpse of the cover(s) <a href="http://cuddlebuggery.com/blog/2015/04/06/cover-reveal-giveaway-illuminae-by-jay-kristoff-and-amie-kaufman/">here</a>. Essentially, the hard cover is a white background covered with text: some scribbled, some highlighted, some blacked out. Most lines are pulled straight from the book, while some on the back are actually regular back copy blurb (I didn't realize this until I sat down to read it, and even then there was so much random text I just dove into the book instead). Over this hard cover there's an acetate slipcover that blocks most of those words while highlighting others. And the book is praised by Marie Lu and Laini Taylor on the slipcover! </div>
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A quick flip through the book shows that this isn't your average book. There are white pages and black pages. Pages with photos made completely of words, diagrams of spaceships, and all different fonts and typography tricks. And all cursing is blacked out because "sure, the story kicks off with the deaths of thousands of people, but god forbid there be cussing in it, right?" (pg 1). </div>
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<b style="text-decoration: underline;">WRITING:</b> You hold in your hands a 600 page file containing all the pertinent investigational documents for the Kerenza incident: medical records, pilot reports, security footage transcripts, hacked IMs and emails, AI "thought" records, diagrams, etc. The story is pieced together with these mostly official documents, woven together by the Illuminae group, who were kind enough to clip in a few notes. They all work together to complete an intriguing story that twists and turns the whole way until you, the reader, are left at the end breathless, talking to the story, wondering how two humans invented this brilliant book.</div>
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<u style="font-weight: bold;">CHARACTERS:</u> I love the characters in this book. Kady is such a regular, amazing, kick ass girl. She is <i>terrified</i> most of the book- breaking down in corners, crying in spacesuits- but she pulls herself up, uses her unique skills, and does what needs to be done, willing to sacrifice herself for the others on the ship. Her transformation throughout the book is so inspiring, and I can't wait to see her continue to grow in the rest of the series.</div>
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<u style="font-weight: bold;">SUMMARY:</u> Basically, I loved this book. The plot, the style, the characters, the world- I love it all! It was just so well done and so interesting. I liked going into this one not knowing anything. And if you read my plot heading and thought it wasn't your thing, you should still give this book a chance. Had I read the blurb, I may not have read it, either. But the way it's written is unlike anything else I've read and totally worth the ride. This book is going to be big. And I would be shocked if it doesn't become the next big YA book to movie adaptation franchise. It would play out <i>so well</i> on screen.</div>
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Unfortunately, this book doesn't come out until October 20th. Sorry. But the<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Illuminae-Files-Amie-Kaufman/dp/0553499114/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1436536538&sr=8-1&keywords=illuminae"> pre-sale price on Amazon</a> can't be beat! Less than $10 for the hardcover, and TRUST ME, you want the hardcover, not the ebook. There's also a pretty <a href="http://www.randomhouse.com/teens/illuminae/">awesome website</a> that you should check out. New content is posted on the 20th of each month leading up to the release. Also, keep an eye on my <a href="http://youtube.com/c/aspiringashleyw">YouTube channel</a> where I'll post a book talk video about this book closer to it's release.</div>
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18-year-old Madeline is allergic to everything. From the back cover: "My disease is as rare as it is famous. Basically, I'm allergic to the world. I don't leave my house, have not left my house in seventeen years. The only people I ever see are my mom and nurse, Carla." But then one day, a new family moves in next door, with a boy dressed in all black, and nothing is ever the same.<br />
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I really enjoyed this book. A lot. It was sweet and silly and lovely. The themes of first love and not wasting your life are beautifully woven throughout the story. Nicola Yoon's first novel addresses heavy topics like abuse and chronic illness in a way that is light while not discounting the severity of these issues.<br />
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While the novel and actual writing was enjoyable, the sketches and notebook-style entries made this book fantastic. They don't simply illustrate what the book is saying, but they continue the story in a unique way. For example, we don't simply hear Madeline telling us she wants to kiss Olly. We get a three page "Kissing Primer" (and let's not lie, what girl hasn't thought about all the steps that lead up to kissing?)<br />
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The characters of Madeline and Carla were well developed and relatable, but I'm split on Olly. I liked what we saw of him, but he felt kind of one-dimensional or superficial. We heard about the issues he faced and things he liked, but he seemed to only exist for Maddy and doing things with her.<br />
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The plot twist = genius. Loved it! But I wish we had a little bit more after. It felt like we had the twist, then some angst, and suddenly the book was over. I wish we had just a little more resolution, especially with Dr. Whittier.<br />
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But as a whole, I loved this book and you should read it. But you can't yet, unless you have an ARC. <i>Everything Everything </i>is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Everything-Nicola-Yoon/dp/0553496646">on sale September 1, 2015</a>. But once it comes out, you should definitely read it. Especially if you're a Rainbow Rowell fan, because it had a similar feel to it (and really, who's not a Rainbow fan these days?).<br />
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Also, there is a <a href="http://everythingeverythingbook.tumblr.com/">Tumblr</a> set up for this book! There's not much there right now, but it looks like it will be a lot of fun when they get it going!<br />
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Want to hear more about my thoughts on this book? Check out my BookTalk <a href="https://youtu.be/V54l0HB7tSA">here</a>!<br />
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4.5/5 stars<br />
Recommended<br />
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<i>I received this book from First in Line at BookCon 2015 under no obligation for a positive review.</i><br />
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<br />**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-13301734679360775812015-06-02T13:41:00.003-04:002015-11-16T19:11:11.868-05:00BookCon 2015<div style="text-align: left;">
<a href="http://www.thebookcon.com/">BookCon15</a> was this past weekend and it was <i><b>AWESOME</b></i>. BookCon is truly where I find my people. </div>
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This year, BookCon was extended to TWO days of Bookish awesomeness, so even though we were late getting there on Saturday, I still came home with a massive haul of 35 books (not counting the 7 I grabbed for others), only 4 of which I had to pay for, 16 samples for upcoming books, 6 totes, a slew of bookmarks, and random bookish things. (The end of this post has a shot of the books and a list of what they are, if you're interested).</div>
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Pretty much the moment I got to the Javits center, I went down to the autograph lines for the one celebrity I was most excited to meet. I waited two hours in line (was one of the first dozen people there), but it was worth it. Felicia Day is so sweet and geeky! She offered to sign Charlie's head when I pulled her out for the picture (which of course I allowed, because <i>Charlie signed my Charlie). </i>Related: anyone know a good sealant for use on vinyl?</div>
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My brother and eventual-sister-in-law came with me on this adventure, but they spent most of Saturday at the hotel tired and with homework. Similarly, on Sunday I was up in line early so I could go to the First in Line Red Carpet Author Breakfast (free books + meeting the authors + food = awesomesauce. Also, I discussed Dean vs. Sam with Jennifer Niven) while they did things like sleep and eat. Amateurs. So I spent most of the weekend wandering alone getting swag like this:</div>
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One of my favorite things about BookCon is suddenly finding an author doing a signing at some random table. That's how I met Abi and Missy (authors of the Sinners series) and, most excitedly, Mike Berenstain of the Berenstain Bears!! Total fangirl moment with him.</div>
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The only author I waited in line to meet this year, aside from the FIL Breakfast, was Scott Westerfeld. I wanted to go to the Rainbow Rowell party, but it sold out in less than 30 minutes while I was still on the bus. Sad Panda. But, Scott Westerfeld! </div>
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When my brother and I asked to take a selfie, we kinda cracked him up. And look! I am officially Ashley-wa! My favorite thing about this is that he crossed out his name to sign it. So Bubbly.</div>
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The other highlight of the weekend for me was the BookTube 101 Panel and the meet up after. Got to watch my favorite BookTubers (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/Katytastic">Katytastic</a>, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/polandbananasBOOKS">Xtinemay</a>, and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/jessethereader/videos">JesseTheReader</a>) live on stage, and then got to meet them! And they are exactly as sweet and amazing as you'd expect. The right side is the result of "okay, now a silly picture". Of course they obliged. Christine was especially enthusiastic. </div>
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In addition to all this fun, there was a Welcome to Night Vale panel where Cecil read the beginning of the new novel live. If I am ever in a coma or unable to do anything for myself, I want Cecil Baldwin to come read to me. Benedict Cumberbatch can take turns when he gets tired.</div>
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Lastly, let me show you the books I got. The books on the left are already released, about half of them are signed. The books on the right are all ARCs. The ones leaning on the side are the samples for upcoming books.</div>
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And now, THE LIST. * = signed ** = met the author at a signing<br />
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<u><b>Left Side (Already available):</b></u><br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Geeks-Guide-Dating-Eric-Smith/dp/1594746435/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1433264222&sr=8-1&keywords=geeks+guide+to+dating">The Geek's Guide to Dating</a> by Eric Smith*<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fangirls-Guide-Galaxy-Handbook-Geeks-ebook/dp/B00N6PBF5U/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433264837&sr=1-1&keywords=fangirls+guide+to+the+galaxy">The Fangirl's Guide to the Galaxy</a> by Sam Maggs**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Girl-Next-Door-Selene-Castrovilla-ebook/dp/B00CY2OECW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433264930&sr=1-1&keywords=the+girl+next+door+selene">The Girl Next Door</a> by Selene Castrovilla**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Love-Profanity-Rachael-Hanel-ebook/dp/B00OY8P6C6/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433264968&sr=1-1&keywords=love+and+profanity">Love and Profanity</a> edited by Nick Healy<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Interesting-Simple-Steps-ebook/dp/B00ANSW8MW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265024&sr=1-1&keywords=how+to+be+interesting">How to be Interesting</a> by Jessica Hagy**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Life-After-Perfect-Nancy-Naigle-ebook/dp/B00QBOD57O/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265103&sr=1-1&keywords=life+after+perfect">Life After Perfect </a>by Nancy Naigle**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Badass-Doubting-Greatness-ebook/dp/B00B3M3VWS/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265143&sr=1-1&keywords=you+area+badass">You Are a Badass</a> by Jen Sincero**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/MELT-Theres-Place-Romance-Trilogy-ebook/dp/B00O4CWKQW/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265196&sr=1-3&keywords=melt">Melt</a> by Delene Castrovilla** (the last one there, missigned to someone else, so she let me have it)<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Branded-Sinners-Book-Abi-Ketner-ebook/dp/B00LBBM9WY/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265245&sr=1-1&keywords=branded">Branded</a> by Abi Ketner and Missy Kalicicki**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Maze-Runner-Scorch-Trials-Collectors/dp/0553538241/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265300&sr=1-1&keywords=the+maze+runner+collectors+edition">The Maze Runner/The Scorch Trials Collector's Edition</a> bindup by James Dashner**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Reconstruction-First-Body-Then-Life-ebook/dp/B00U4A086C/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265403&sr=1-1&keywords=reconstruction+first+a+body">Reconstruction: First a Body Then a Life</a> by Ara Lucia Ashburne<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Little-Prince-Unabridged-Antoine-Saint-exupery-ebook/dp/B00RR30UXA/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265329&sr=1-3&keywords=the+little+prince">The Little Prince</a> by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry (linked version not the same as what I got)<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/All-Bright-Places-Jennifer-Niven-ebook/dp/B00LKJHTB8/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265269&sr=1-1&keywords=all+the+bright+places">All the Bright Places</a> by Jennifer Niven**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/We-Were-Liars-E-Lockhart-ebook/dp/B00FPOSDGY/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265224&sr=1-1&keywords=we+were+liars">We Were Liars</a> by E. Lockhart**<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Daughter-Smoke-Bone-Trilogy-Book-ebook/dp/B004QX076Y/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265172&sr=1-1&keywords=daughter+of+smoke+and+bone">Daughter of Smoke and Bone</a> by Laini Taylor<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Galactic-Hot-Dogs-Cosmoes-Getaway-ebook/dp/B00O65ZZVO/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265049&sr=1-1&keywords=galactic+hot+dogs">Galactic Hot Dogs</a> by Max Brllier and Rachel Maguire<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Hiking-Waterfalls-New-England-Waterfall-ebook/dp/B00VOR8EFQ/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433264996&sr=1-1&keywords=hiking+waterfalls+in+new+england">Hiking Waterfalls in New England</a> from Falcon Guides<br />
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<b><u>Right Side (ARCs)</u></b><br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Second-Chance-Summer-Cedar-Ridge-ebook/dp/B00OP5EU8E/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265440&sr=1-3&keywords=second+chance+summer">Second Chance Summer</a> by Jill Shalvis*<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Choose-Your-Own-Love-Story/dp/0762458518/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265503&sr=1-2&keywords=choose+your+own+love+story">Choose Your Own Love Story</a> by Ilyse Mimoun<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Golden-Compass-Graphic-Novel-Materials/dp/0553523724/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265569&sr=1-1&keywords=golden+compass+graphic+novel">The Golden Compass Graphic Novel Vol 1</a> by Phillip Pullman<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Inherit-Stars-Tessa-Elwood/dp/0762458402/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1433265724&sr=8-4&keywords=inherit+the+stars">Inherit the Stars</a> by Tessa Elwood<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Sorcerer-Crown-Royal-Novel-ebook/dp/B00SI0B91S/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265909&sr=1-1&keywords=sorcerer+to+the+crown">Sorcerer to the Crown</a> by Zen Cho<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Voyagers-Project-Alpha-Book-1-ebook/dp/B00OEXDM40/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433266099&sr=1-1&keywords=voyagers+project+alpha">Voyagers Project Alpha</a> by D.J. MacHale<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Everything-Nicola-Yoon-ebook/dp/B00QP3M0UO/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433266044&sr=1-1&keywords=everything+everything">Everything Everything</a> by Nicola Yoon** (<i>really</i> excited to read this one!)<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Unexpected-Inheritance-Inspector-Chopra-Investigation-ebook/dp/B00TOT9LD0/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433266014&sr=1-3&keywords=the+unexpected+inheritance">The Unexpected Inheritance of Inspector Chopra</a> by Vaseem Khan<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Samurai-Rising-Epic-Minamoto-Yoshitsune/dp/1580895840/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265977&sr=1-1&keywords=samurai+rising">Samurai Rising</a> by Pamela S. Turner<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Deadline-Diaries-Finding-Forever-Exclusive/dp/0762455942/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265949&sr=1-1&keywords=finding+forever+ken">Finding Forever</a> by Ken Baker<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Mighty-Purpose-Grant-Saving-Children-ebook/dp/B00S3OVUG8/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265878&sr=1-1&keywords=a+mighty+purpose">A Mighty Purpose</a> by Adam Fifield<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Unfortunate-Decisions-Dahlia-Moss-ebook/dp/B00US1STXQ/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265822&sr=1-1&keywords=the+unfortunate+decisions+of+dahlia+moss">The Unfortunate Decisions of Dahlia Moss</a> by Max Wirestone (got the last one, insanely excited)<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Bureaucrat-Novel-Helen-Phillips-ebook/dp/B00SEO83V2/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265792&sr=1-1&keywords=the+beautiful+bureaucrat">The Beautiful Bureaucrat</a> by Helen Phillips<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Another-Day-David-Levithan/dp/0385756208/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1433265761&sr=8-2&keywords=another+day">Another Day</a> by David Levithan<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Keeper-Vega-Jane-Book-ebook/dp/B00S1KX4RW/ref=sr_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265593&sr=1-5&keywords=the+keeper">The Keeper</a> by David Baldacci<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Steve-Jobs-Insanely-Jessie-Hartland/dp/0307982955/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265532&sr=1-1&keywords=steve+jobs+insanely+great">Steve Jobs Insanely Great</a> [a graphic biography] by Jessie Hartland<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Illuminae-Files-Amie-Kaufman-ebook/dp/B00OEXJARS/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1433265473&sr=1-1&keywords=illuminae">Illuminae</a> by Amie Kaufman and Jay Kristoff<br />
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Stay tuned over the next few months as I try to read and review all of these!<br />
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Update: I've started a BookTube channel over on YouTube! You can see a video of this haul <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33hpetp_aT4">here</a>.<br />
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<b>Let's chat in the comments! </b><br />
<b>Which book above do you most want to read? Or which would you like to see a review on?</b><br />
<b>Did you go to BookCon or BEA this year? What was your favorite part?</b><br />
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<br />**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-23249252331811326492015-03-20T17:42:00.000-04:002015-03-20T17:44:15.752-04:0011 Things Christian Singles Are Sick Of HearingPeople say a lot of stupid things to single people, especially in the church. "Like what?" you may ask. Let me share some of the most popular things Christian singles are sick of hearing, in no particular order.<br />
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<b>It'll happen when you least expect it (or when you stop looking)!</b><br />
Well that's good, because I stopped expecting it about 5 years ago, so my expectations can't be any lower! And I've never actively looked for a mate, so...done! I've stopped looking! But seriously, this platitude doesn't help. In <i>any</i> situation, this is the least helpful thing you can say to a single person. How do you stop dreaming about something you want in your life? Also, if I am one of 4 single women in my church and not opposed to marriage, you'd better believe I'm looking at the ring finger of every new guy who comes through that door, especially if they're attractive. Even if I'm not actively looking to get married, I'm still paying attention.<br />
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<b>Maybe you're called to singleness! </b><br />
This is usually directed at young people (<i>what?!)</i>. Oh, you're not married before you can legally drink alcohol? Guess you never will be! (But you're Christian, so you better not drink any of that alcohol, ever). Maybe I am called to be single forever, but <i>you</i> are certainly not the one allowed to point that out, or even ask me about it. I promise you the thought has crossed my mind that I'll be single forever, and my feelings on that subject are complicated. After about 25 years old, the single in question tends to be viewed as a spinster. I've even had people use the actual word with me! (I just turned 28).<br />
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<b>Singles are a picture of heaven, because in heaven there is no marriage.</b><br />
I'm sorry, what Bible are you reading? This is not just bad theology, it's a complete lie. True, there is no marriage between man and woman, but there is <i>absolutely</i> marriage! Bride of Christ? Marriage Supper of the Lamb? Ringing any bells? The Bible frequently refers to marriage between a man and woman as a picture of our relationship with Christ. We are the bride of Christ, anticipating heaven because that is where the marriage is finalized. So go read the New Testament, and then try to tell me singles are an example of heaven, more than marriage. But this is closely related to another cringeworthy statement...<br />
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<b>Just be married to Jesus!</b><br />
Okay...but is Jesus going to bring me a Coke, and cuddle with me and Netflix when I have a migraine or a bad day at work? Will he swap the laundry if I forget? Wash the dishes? Help make the travel arrangements? Make babies with me?? Yes, I love Jesus, but a relationship with him is a totally different caliber. I know people mean well with this, but just stop. It's not encouraging and it's twisting scripture. The creepy cousin to this one is the: "<b>Let Jesus be your lover!</b>" No no no no. No. Are you seriously telling me to sleep with Jesus? Do you hear how creepy/crazy that sounds? Besides, that raises a whole bunch of uncomfortable questions and theological debates that I would rather not deal with. Let's just leave this at: it's really hard to not have a physical connection with someone.<br />
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<b>You're so lucky you're single! Marriage is so hard! </b><br />
<b>a.k.a: You're so lucky you can do whatever you want, whenever you want!</b><br />
Yeah, marriage is hard. But you know what else is hard? Always being alone. Sleeping alone every night. Not being invited to parties because "it's all couples and we didn't want you to feel awkward". Dealing with bills and illnesses and crises and other grown-up life stuff all by yourself. Even with great family or friends around, it's not easy to be single. A married woman recently said, "My husband's out of town this week, I'm kind of scared all by myself at night!" Guess what singles are feeling every night? Life is hard, no matter what. Marriage is hard, but so is being single. This isn't a contest of what's better, married or single, so stop competing. They both have their perks and pitfalls.<br />
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<b>A woman's highest calling is to be a wife and mother.</b><br />
Recently I attended a women's meeting, where it was stressed that all women should attend. So I did. But everything that was discussed pertained only to married women (protecting your husband from porn, serving your husband, etc). Finally, someone braver than I, asked "What about us single women?" The answer was essentially that we should help the married women. I'm all for helping my fellow women, married or not, but that is not my only purpose in life. I have a unique call on my life, and it's not just to raise a family. Is that the ultimate calling for some women? Absolutely. Jenny Acuff wrote a great post on her husband's blog about this once. A woman's dream to be a wife/mother is not any less or more important than what I'm called to. But doing anything other than what God has designed me for is sinning against Him and abandoning his call on my life. And why is marriage the highest calling for a woman, but not for a man? Oh, let's not go there....<br />
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<b>You should do it [extreme activity, traveling, class, etc] now before you settle down. </b><br />
<b>Get it out of your system.</b><br />
This one I tend to just smile and nod to. People don't seem to get it. My goals and favorite activities aren't magically going to change just because there's a ring on my finger. I <i>love</i> to travel. No, correction, I <i style="font-weight: bold;"><u>need</u></i> to travel. It's in my blood and I get anxious if I don't travel every few months. That's not going to go away if I get married. So you know what? I'm going to marry someone who is also addicted to travel. We'll be those crazy people taking their babies on trips to Spain or Thailand or Kenya or Antarctica. Putting a carseat on a camel or whatever. I'm not going to change who I am just to get married. And if I find someone amazing who doesn't want that kind of lifestyle? Then he's not the right one for me. I'd rather be single. Simple as that.<br />
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<b>You're not married, you can [work extra shifts, work holidays, babysit my kids, serve at our church event, etc].</b><br />
No, thank you. I have a life, too. And a family, even if they didn't come from my body. I want my free time just as much as you do, to do the things I enjoy. Just because I don't have a partner doesn't mean I don't have a social life. You chose to have add a spouse/kids to your life, you figure out the scheduling. I've chosen not to have those things in my life at this point for a reason.<br />
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<b>You <i>want</i> to be single?! Don't worry, you'll change your mind when you find the right guy.</b><br />
You're starting to sound like the aunt in My Big Fat Greek Wedding: "You don't eat no meat? Okay, I'll make lamb." Believe it or not, some people don't want to get married! *gasp* The horror! But it's okay if a person doesn't want to be in a relationship. Paul even commends singles! Also, remember back in number 4? You were jealous that I'm single! Why are you trying to convince me that I need to be married? Singleness isn't a disease you need to cure. Aren't I good enough on my own?<br />
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<b>Have you tried online dating? This bar/class/place? You should try....</b><br />
No, stop. Don't tell me what to do. Just because it worked for you or your third cousin's hairdresser or whoever, doesn't mean it's right for me. Also, have you <i>seen</i> the creeps out there lately? I had a guy come up to my friend in a pub, swerve in her face, and then high five as a way of flirting. <i>What?!</i> Even if the idea of online dating doesn't completely freak you out (like it does me), it's not easy to weed out the weirdos and find a keeper. There's an entire TV show dedicated to how people trick others in online relationships. The struggle is real. The evil twin of this statement is the dreaded: "<b>You're too picky.</b>" No, I just have standards. I've got great things going on in my life, I don't want to mess it all up with a drunk, jobless, baby daddy just so I can have a ring on my finger.<br />
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<b>You are so great! Why aren't you married yet?</b><br />
Ugh. Seriously? Again, maybe I want to be single. And if I want to be married, but I'm not, how do I know why I'm not?! This statement is like one of Barney Stinson's negative compliments. It seems like a compliment, but it hints that there's something wrong with me. It's worse when it's a single member of the opposite sex asking you. Uhh....I don't know, but why don't you tell me, since you apparently have no interest in asking me out, either? This one also has a creepy cousin: <b>If I weren't married, I definitely wouldn't let you get away.</b> Dude, stop. Just stop. Go back to your wife and leave me alone.<br />
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There are a lot of stupid things that people say to singles, but at the heart of it all is the fact that many of the questions and comments made about our singleness make us feel less than. Like we're not worth anything because we're by ourselves. Remember: singles are people too! We have hopes and dreams, and goals, and jobs and everything you do....just minus the spouse. Stop trying to give us unsolicited advise, stop trying to fix us, stop downplaying the joys of marriage, and just be our friend. <br />
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Thank you to all the ladies of 30DoH and ATS for your suggestions!<br />
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<b>My fellow singles, what's your least favorite thing to hear regarding your marital status? Did I miss a good one?</b><br />
<br />**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-20517818795995936812015-03-10T10:12:00.003-04:002015-03-10T10:12:54.722-04:00"Millennial Gospel"I have another friend with their first book out! I love reviewing books, but I especially love it when I know the author!<br />
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When <a href="https://www.facebook.com/RyanReveleyauthor">Pastor Ryan</a> first told me he was writing a book and it's theme, I expected something theologic and academic. I don't know why. He's a pretty cool and down-to-earth guy, and is also very smart, so I don't know. This book is anything but stuffy academic. Millennial Gospel is a call to action for all believers in today's world to reach the lost of the Millennial Generation (the generation born around the turn of the millennium) and written to connect with everyone.<br />
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One of my favorite parts of this book is the first section, which breaks down the most common damaging cliches we use in the church today and offers healthy alternatives. Things like "God just wants you to be happy" and "...because the Bible says so". Those little things that just slip out of so many Christian mouths that have no basis in Scripture, or are simply cop outs to giving an actual answer that will help people.<br />
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Pastor Ryan goes on to outline why the Millennial generation is so different than previous generations, and how that impacts their view of God and the church. Rather than simply painting a bleak picture, the book tells us how to connect with this generation as individual Christians and as the Church. All of this is done in a friendly, conversational manner that is as inspiring as it is convicting.<br />
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Every Christian should read this book and put it's principles to action in their lives. The points made in this book are not only applicable to reaching the Millennial Generation, but anyone living in today's world. It's a different era and the old methods just don't work anymore. What will work is relationships fueled with honesty and openness.<br />
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4/5 Stars, Recommended. Available to purchase <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Millennial-Gospel-Ryan-Reveley-ebook/dp/B00UDAAS22/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1425986039&sr=8-1&keywords=Millennial+Gospel">here</a>.<br />
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<i>I received this book from the author in exchange for an honest review.</i>**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-62254202635678420152015-03-03T22:21:00.002-05:002015-03-04T10:12:52.246-05:00No More Hamster Wheel! <div style="text-align: center;">
I have the joy today of getting to review <a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Get-Debt-Living-Paycheck-ebook/dp/B00Q220TNS/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8">How to Get Out of Debt Living Paycheck to Paycheck</a> by Camilla Kragius from <a href="http://www.nomorehamsterwheel.com/">No More Hamster Wheel</a>. </div>
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When it comes to financial books, in my mind, Dave Ramsey is the untouchable guru, Casey Lewis is the personal/relatable mentor, and Camilla Kragius is the neighbor who's been-there-done-that and wants to share how with you. While a lot of financial books are full of facts and stats, HTGOODLPTP is more conversational and encouraging.</div>
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This book is a <i>very</i> quick read. The short chapters give you the down and dirty details of how to become debt free, save for the future, and live your life. The first chapter, which also happens to be the longest, walks you step by step through creating (and sticking with!) a budget- even if you live paycheck to irregular paycheck.</div>
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One thing I really appreciated was Camilla's acknowledgement that you have to actually <b>live</b> while getting out of debt, even if that means not following her plan to the t so you can have a little fun. Instead, she stresses the importance of balance, even though it goes against the conventional advice from most gurus.</div>
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Along with the book, I also got to review the companion course: <a href="http://www.nomorehamsterwheel.com/financial-freedom-course/">Financial Freedom</a>. I LOVED this course. If you're going to buy the book, spend the extra money and go for the whole course- and you get the book included! </div>
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In 27 lessons, Camilla walks you through all the principles in her book so you come out with a complete and personalized financial plan. It further explains some parts of the book that can get confusing, and even gives you rest days so you don't get too overwhelmed! I'd estimate that the lessons take anywhere from 15-60 minutes, depending on your debt, work-ethic, and math skills ;) </div>
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As a whole, I think I may have liked the course more than the actual book, if that's possible? The book had some parts that seemed a little jumbled and required me to read a few times to understand, but overall was a good start for people beginning their financial journey. The book gets 3 stars from me. The course, however, gets 5 stars, as the walkthroughs and narratives were fantastic and easy to follow.</div>
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So as a whole package, this product gets 4/5 stars. I'd recommend it for anyone who needs a step-by-step walkthrough to start their budget and financial life. </div>
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<b>Update:</b> Camilla has generously offered a discount to readers of AspiringAshley! Use the coupon code "Ashley" to receive the course for only $10! What a great start to becoming debt free. Thanks Camilla!</div>
**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-54028203580893599502015-02-23T12:53:00.000-05:002015-02-23T12:53:04.016-05:00Mr Grey Attacked My Dog<div style="text-align: center;">
Last night, I went to bed early. I've been exhausted lately, and the past week or so has been crazy at work. So it was lights out just after 9:30p and I was on my way to dream land...except at 9:45 I heard something. </div>
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Our dog Jack barked, but it wasn't his usual bark. Then I heard banging, and yelling, and Jack yelping, and squealing. I ran upstairs to see what was going on and found the kitchen in chaos. My dad was looking around for something, my mom was trying to close the sliding door, and they were both yelling. I looked down and saw a raccoon IN the door, my mom pinning it in place, trying to keep it from getting into the house. My mom yells at me, "This isn't Jack! It's a raccoon!" (because I obviously couldn't tell that) and is yelling at my dad to get a bucket, but he's trying to deal with Jack. </div>
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So I grab the recycling bucket next to the door and put it over the raccoon, who is half way in the house, while my mom keeps holding the door. My dad finally caught the dog, who had been attacked and bit by this raccoon while he was outside for his last pee break before bed, and ran upstairs to put him in his crate and get my brothers. (By the way, Sam, I've taken to calling you my brother lately instead of "the guy who lives in our attic." It's basically true anyways, and easier than explaining.)</div>
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So the boys and Leah all come down, I'm holding a bucket over a raccoon who has half his body in our house and is squealing and scratching and thrashing. My mom is too nervous to open the door to get him out of the house, thinking he might flip himself around into the house and bite or scratch us. My brothers are offering to kill it with a giant stick they just happened to have with them. </div>
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Being the voice of reason, I sent my brother (blood brother, Miah) to put on boots, then he took over holding the door for my mom. Mom went to examine the dog, while Miah and I took a few seconds to regroup and plan (while everyone behind us is yelling "helpful" things).</div>
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We took a three count, Miah slid open the door, I threw the raccoon and barrel up, out, and to the right (to make sure it wouldn't get caught on the lip of the door), and Miah slammed the door closed again. And locked it, per our mother's request. Just in case the raccoon knows how to open slider doors, I guess. Then the raccoon earned his new name: Mr Grey. We nearly killed him in the door, and he came right back trying to get in for more. And he was definitely injured, because he was limping around, and there was blood on our door where we had pinned him. This is how far into our house his front half was:</div>
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Jack went to the vet, got his injuries checked out and cleaned. He's got a bite on each hind leg, and a little scratch on his nose. He's a drugged little guy this morning, since they had to sedate him last night to clean him up, and now he's on pain meds. He's back at the vet right now getting a rabies booster, and he has to be on quarantine for 45 days, since the raccoon wasn't caught so we don't know if it had rabies. </div>
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Mr Grey may look cute, but don't be fooled. He's a monster.</div>
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<br />**Ashley**http://www.blogger.com/profile/14218914544640029493noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2539892126751221775.post-63052034240011523262015-01-25T21:34:00.004-05:002015-01-25T21:34:55.884-05:00Let's Be SpiesFor 2015 we are re-resolving the "Do New Things" resolution, like we had in <a href="http://aspiringashley.blogspot.com/search/label/Year%20of%20Awesome">2013</a>. Today we took our first adventure of 2015: We became spies. (We also posted it all over the internet. We're not the best spies.)<br />
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<a href="http://www.5-wits.com/">5 Wits</a> at Patriots Place in Foxboro is this really cool place. They've got two adventures: Espionage and 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea. We, of course, did the Espionage option where, essentially, you spend an hour being a spy.<br />
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You go into a "shop" that turns out to be a front for the CDA, your agency. After exchanging code words and destroying the hidden bugs, you are briefed by the senior agent (we had the fantastic James). We learned that COBAL had stolen valuable blueprints which, if built, would put an end to all electronic communications on the planet. No phones, internet...NO NETFLIX!<br />
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And of course, it was highly probably that there was a mole in our agency. After making it through the laser security system, you and your group (of twelve or so) as you are led by your senior agent through the Disney-quality sets of enemy headquarters as you try to find the blueprints and stop the bad guys. We even had to (try to) dismantle a bomb! (We survived, but barely.)<br />
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Here's where our senior agent encouraged some "Satellite Selfies" so we could prove to our higher ups that COBAL did, in fact, steal the blueprints and begin a prototype of Project Gridlock.<br />
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The lighting in the lab wasn't the best for selfies, but I still like this. I don't have other photos. I was too busy having a blast being a spy and trying not to blow up from the bomb. </div>
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This was SO. MUCH. FUN! I would highly recommend it, and would totally go back! Everything is interactive and high quality. Our senior agent was great. Did I mention this was really fun? Because it was. You should go do it. Where else can you, an adult, go run around like a spy for less than $20?</div>
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And finally, because Gillette was right outside the door....GO PATS!</div>
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